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📂| قال الإمام المجدد #مقبل_الوادعي رحمه الله :|[ والمرأة كالزجاجة ينبغي أن يُحسن إليها ]|📓|(أسئلة أم ياسر الفرنسية / س١٠ )Imaam Muqbil Al-Wad'ee رحمه said:The Woman is like a glass, it's thus befitting that you act in an excellent manner towards her. _ As-ilatu Ummu Yaasir Al-Faransiyyah Q10_ t.me/ummuhayaaTelegramUmmu Hayaa's Majlis || مجلس أم حياءA sisters' only majlis based upon the Qur'aan and Sunnah upon the understanding of the Righteous Predecessors. ummuhayaasmajlis@gmail.com Benefit: @AwfIbnMaalikIsaamicLibrary. @InsightfulPearlsHomeSchool. @darussalafiyyahidah.Insightful Couples Marriage Guide Platform
7 Sept, 04:59
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📂| قال الإمام #مقبل_الوادعي رحمه الله :|[ أنصح المرأة الصالحة إذا أراد أبوها الجشع أن يزوجها بـرجل من أهل الدنيا أن تقول : هى لا ترغب في الزواج حتى يأتيها رجل صالح ، وتتزوج بالرجل الصالح ]|📓|(من شريط : ( أسئلة نساء تعـــز ))Shaykh Muqbil رحمه الله said:I advice the Righteous woman that when her greedy father wants to marry her to a man from the people of Dunyaa, she should tell him: she is not interested in (this) marriage until he brings her a righteous man and then she marries a righteous man. _ The tape: As-ilatu Nisaa ta-iz _ t.me/ummuhayaa _ #Precious_Sayings #أقوال_نفائسTelegramUmmu Hayaa's Majlis || مجلس أم حياءA sisters' only majlis based upon the Qur'aan and Sunnah upon the understanding of the Righteous Predecessors. ummuhayaasmajlis@gmail.com Benefit: @AwfIbnMaalikIsaamicLibrary. @InsightfulPearlsHomeSchool. @darussalafiyyahidah.Insightful Couples Marriage Guide Platform
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5 Sept, 10:03
Sisters, pay attention! Some women show respect to their own husbands, yet encourage you to disrespect and rebel against yours. Why? So that they remain the only "good wife," while you're counted among the bad ones! This advice comes from life experience — I go lie for you? (ie why would I lie to you?)The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "Whoever incites a woman against her husband or a slave against his master is not one of us."عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم: "لَيْسَ مِنَّا مَنْ خَبَّبَ امْرَأَةً عَلَى زَوْجِهَا، أَوْ عَبْدًا عَلَى سَيِّدِهِ".Abu Dawud: 2175, authenticated by Shaykh Al-Albani."Responsible" husbands no plenty like that o!t.me/Insightful_Couples whatsapp.com/channel/0029VbB7MBUDp2Q4elmF2U3tInsightful Couples Marriage Guide Platform
31 Aug, 13:41
So he went to one of the trees and brought him a pomegranate from it. He broke it open and found that it was sour. His master became angry with him and said: ‘I ask you for something sweet, and you bring me something sour! Bring me something sweet.’So he went and picked one from another tree. When he broke it open, he found that it was also sour. His anger against him intensified.He did the same thing a third time. He tasted it and found that it was also sour. After that, his master said to him: ‘You do not know the difference between sweet and sour?’He replied: ‘No.’He said: ‘And how is that?’He replied: ‘Because I have never eaten any of them so that I would know.’He said: ‘Then why did you not eat them?’He replied: ‘Because you did not give me permission to eat from them.’The owner of the orchard was amazed by this. He investigated the matter and found that it wasTelegramInsightful Couples Marriage Guide PlatformThe Book The Warmth of Emotions in Marital Life By: Shaykh Abu Abdillāh Fayṣal Al-Ḥāshidī - May Allaah preserve him. t.me/Insightful_Couples/14 Introduction t.me/Insightful_Couples/13 Qualities of the Righteous Wife 1. That she be a possessor of religion…Insightful Couples Marriage Guide Platform
31 Aug, 13:41
The Warmth of Emotions in Marital Life Author: Shaykh Abu Abdillāh Fayṣal Al-Ḥāshidī - May Allaah preserve him.The Qualities of a Righteous Husband1. That he be a man of Religion (Piety)It is upon the woman’s wali (guardian) to select for her a righteous man who is known for his righteousness.Allaah — Glorified and Exalted is He — says:وَأَنكِحُوا الْأَيَامَىٰ مِنكُمْ وَالصَّالِحِينَ مِنْ عِبَادِكُمْ“And marry those among you who are single, and the Salihun (pious, righteous persons) among your male slaves and maid-servants.” Surah An-Noor (Chapter 24), Ayah 32.He should not concern himself with the man’s poverty when he possesses righteousness and Taqwaa (piety), because Allaah — Glorified and Exalted is He — says:إِن يَكُونُوا فُقَرَاءَ يُغْنِهِمُ اللَّهُ مِن فَضْلِهِ ۗ وَاللَّهُ وَاسِعٌ عَلِيمٌTelegramInsightful Couples Marriage Guide PlatformThe Book The Warmth of Emotions in Marital Life By: Shaykh Abu Abdillāh Fayṣal Al-Ḥāshidī - May Allaah preserve him. t.me/Insightful_Couples/14 Introduction t.me/Insightful_Couples/13 Qualities of the Righteous Wife 1. That she be a possessor of religion…Insightful Couples Marriage Guide Platform pinned «The Book The Warmth of Emotions in Marital Life By: Shaykh Abu Abdillāh Fayṣal Al-Ḥāshidī - May Allaah preserve him. t.me/Insightful_Couples/14 Introduction t.me/Insightful_Couples/13 Qualities of the Righteous Wife 1. That she be a possessor of religion…»
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7 Aug, 11:02
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◾️Knowledge Is What Makes 'Ibaadah (Worship) Correct◾️بســـم اللــه الرحــمــن الـرحـــيــم📤 Benefit from the Shaykh Abu Ibraaheem Muhammad Ibnu Maani 'Al-Aanisi - may Allaah preserve him:Knowledge Is What Makes 'Ibaadah (Worship) Correct or Valid1 - Al-Qurtubi said, commenting on the saying of Allaah, the Mighty and Majestic:فَخَلَفَ مِنْ بَعْدِهِمْ خَلْفٌ أَضَاعُوا الصَّلَاةَ وَاتَّبَعُوا الشَّهَوَاتِ“Then there has succeeded them a posterity who have given up As-Salaah (the prayers) [i.e., made their Salaah (prayers) to be lost, either by not offering them or by not offering them perfectly or by not offering them in their proper fixed times] and have followed lusts.” — Surah Maryam (19:59)."By the life of Allaah, one may indeed witness in reality a person who is pointed to [as a person of knowledge] and thought to possess 'ilm (knowledge), and is honored as such — yetInsightful Couples Marriage Guide Platform
5 Aug, 13:27
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28 Jul, 06:33
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Not Every Title Reflects RealityAl-Haafizh Ibn Hajar mentioned in Al-Isaabah fee Tamyeez al-Sahaabah that:The wife of the Companion Talhah ibn 'Ubayd Allaah (may Allaah be pleased with him) was nicknamed "Al-Jarbaa'" (the Scabby One), despite being among the most beautiful women of her era, to the extent that it was said: "No woman stands beside her except that she appears unsightly"—owing to the extraordinary beauty with which she was favored. She had no scabies, nor was there any flaw in her character; rather, this title simply stuck to her until she became famous by it.In this lies a lesson demonstrating that titles and the judgments of people are not always a reflection of reality. For how many a virtuous person has been belittled, how many a benefactor has been mistreated, and how many a possessor of blessings has been envied!Therefore, do not prioritize the view of theInsightful Couples Marriage Guide Platform
24 Jul, 17:16
عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُمَرَ: قال قال رسول الله ﷺ: وَأَحَبُّ الْأَعْمَالِ إِلَى اللَّهِ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ سُرُورٌ يُدْخِلُهُ عَلَى مُسْلِمٍ.الألباني، السلسلة الصحيحة (٩٠٦) أخرجه الطبراني في ((المعجم الأوسط)) (٦٠٢٦)، وأبو الشيخ في ((التوبيخ والتنبيه)) (٩٧) باختلاف يسير.'Abdullaah ibn 'Umar narrated that the Messenger of Allaah ﷺ said:The most beloved of deeds to Allaah, Mighty and Majestic, is a joy that you bring to a Muslim.Silsilat al-Ahaadeeth as-Saheeha (906)]: graded by Shaykh Al-Albani as Saheeha (authentic). Reported by At-Tabaraani in Al-Mu'jam al-Awsat (6026), and Abu Al-Shaykh in Al-Tawbeekh wa Al-Tanbeeh (97) with a slight variation.t.me/Insightful_Couples whatsapp.com/channel/0029VbB7MBUDp2Q4elmF2U3tInsightful Couples Marriage Guide Platform
19 Jul, 17:48
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18 Jul, 10:44
«يَا عِبَادِي، إِنَّكُمْ تُخْطِئُونَ بِاللَّيْلِ وَالنَّهَارِ، وَأَنَا أَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ جَمِيعًا، فَاسْتَغْفِرُونِي أَغْفِرْ لَكُمْ» "O My servants, you commit sins by night and by day, and I forgive all sins. So seek My forgiveness, and I will forgive you." (Saheeh Muslim, no. 2577)The distinguishing mark of a righteous person is therefore not that he never errs, but that he possesses the humility to acknowledge his mistakes, repent sincerely, seek forgiveness from those he has wronged, and strive to reform himself. Persistent refusal to acknowledge wrongdoing is not a sign of strength; it is a sign of a diseased heart.Healthy people make mistakes. They apologise, reflect, and grow. Those entrenched in narcissistic patterns, however, often repeat the same harmful behaviours because admitting fault feels more unbearable than continuing the behaviour itself.It is for this reasonTelegramInsightful Couples Marriage Guide PlatformTrue success in marriage is built upon authentic knowledge, righteousness, and following the noble path of the Righteous Predecessors. whatsapp.com/channel/0029VbB7MBUDp2Q4elmF2U3t Supervised by: @AwfIbnMaalikIsaamicLibrary @ummuhayaaInsightful Couples Marriage Guide Platform
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Entitlement and Lack of Accountability: The Two Defining Hallmarks of Narcissismبســـم اللــه الرحــمــن الـرحـــيــمWhen discussing narcissism, people often focus on confidence, arrogance, or a desire for attention. While these traits may be present, they do not, by themselves, define narcissism. Rather, narcissism is a constellation of behaviours and attitudes that revolve around an inflated sense of self coupled with a deeply fragile inner world.Among its many characteristics are low or inconsistent empathy, grandiosity, arrogance, an excessive need for admiration, preoccupation with status and appearances, hypersensitivity to criticism, and intense anger whenever expectations are frustrated. Beneath this outward display, however, often lies profound insecurity, a fragile ego, and deeply rooted shame.If one were asked to identify the two most consistent hallmarks ofInsightful Couples Marriage Guide Platform
16 Jul, 12:38
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The Speech of the People of Knowledge Regarding the RaafidhahShaykh Abu Ibraaheem Muhammad Ibnu Maani 'Al-Aanisi - may Allaah preserve himRead t.me/ShAlthariAlAnisiEng/41 whatsapp.com/channel/0029Vb8Cgjv30LKQVs47E91EListen t.me/ShAlthariAlAnisiEng/42Watch t.me/ShAlthariAlAnisiEng/43Insightful Couples Marriage Guide Platform
15 Jul, 11:10
Every harsh word. Every unfounded accusation. Every sarcastic jab. Every avoidable argument. Every act of stubbornness. Each one is not neutral—it is a withdrawal from the very account you claim to be depositing into. You cannot build reconciliation with one hand while dismantling and shattering it with the other, and still call the result progress.If you truly want reconciliation, your words must carry it, your actions must embody it, and your sacrifices must authenticate it. Otherwise it remains what it has always been: a claim on the tongue, contradicted by the very tongue that makes it.So before concluding that the other person doesn't want reconciliation, turn the mirror on yourself first, and ask the harder question:Have my own words, attitudes, and actions actually reflected a sincere desire for reconciliation—or only lip service to one?Allaah says:﴿وَإِنِ ٱمۡرَأَةٌInsightful Couples Marriage Guide Platform
15 Jul, 11:10
Reconciliation is Good Part 2: The Reality of Reconciliationبســـم اللــه الرحــمــن الـرحـــيــمIn the previous article, we established a foundational principle: reconciliation cannot occur unless both parties genuinely desire it.But this raises a sharper question:What does it actually mean to desire reconciliation?Is it enough to utter the words "I want reconciliation" or "I want peace"?No. Not even close.Reconciliation is a verb, not a sentiment.It is not enough to declare a desire for peace while your words, attitudes, and actions labour, day and night, to sabotage it. A tongue that confesses reconciliation while a life contradicts it has not reconciled anything—it has merely performed the vocabulary of reconciliation.A sincere desire for reconciliation demands sacrifice. This is one of its most forgotten foundations.1,130Open in TelegramInsightful Couples Marriage Guide Platform
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Reconciliation is Good Part 1: The Forgotten Condition of Reconciliationبســـم اللــه الرحــمــن الـرحـــيــمConflict resolution is a discipline every believer—brother and sister alike—must learn, refine, and practice across a lifetime.But before that discipline can even be applied, one question must be settled first, whether the conflict is marital or fraternal:Does the other party actually want reconciliation?If the answer is no, then a PhD in conflict resolution and a résumé of successful mediations will avail you nothing. Reconciliation is not a solo art. It is not something you can perform on someone. It requires two willing hearts, not one determined one.This is precisely why Allaah said:«﴿إِن يُرِيدَآ إِصۡلَٰحٗا يُوَفِّقِ ٱللَّهُ بَيۡنَهُمَآۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ عَلِيمًا خَبِيرٗا﴾ "If they both desire reconciliation, Allaah will bring about harmony between them.
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